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Faith does not need to push the river because faith is able to trust that there is a river. The river is flowing. We are in it.Richard Rohr
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Change is not what we expect from religious people. They tend to love the past more than the present or the future.Richard Rohr
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Christians are usually sincere and well-intentioned people until you get to any real issues of ego, control power, money, pleasure, and security. Then they tend to be pretty much like everybody else. We often given a bogus version of the Gospel, some fast-food religion, without any deep transformation of the self; and the result has been the spiritual disaster of "Christian" countries that tend to be as consumer-oriented, proud, warlike, racist, class conscious, and addictive as everybody else-and often more so, I'm afraid.Richard Rohr
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...religion either produces the very best people or the very worst.Richard Rohr
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...organized religion is no longer good news for most people, but bad news indeed. It set us up for the massive atheism, agnosticism, hedonism, and secularism we now see in almost all formerly Christian countries.Richard Rohr
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Knowing without loving is frankly dangerous for the soul and for society. You'll critique most everything you encounter and even have the hubris to call this mode of reflexive cynicism "thinking" (whereas it's really your ego's narcissistic reaction to the moment). You'll position things to quickly as inferior or superior, "with me" or "against me, " and most of the time you'll be wrong.Richard Rohr
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Life is all about practicing for heaven." p 101.Richard Rohr
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Every time God forgives us, God is saying that God's own rules do not matter as much as the relationship that God wants to create with us.Richard Rohr
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Those who are not true leaders or elders will just affirm people at their own immature level, and of course immature people will love them and elect them for being equally immature. You can fill in the names here with your own political disaster story. But just remember, there is a symbiosis between immature groups and immature leaders, I am afraid, which is why both Plato and Jefferson said democracy was not really the best form of government. It is the safest. A truly wise monarch would probably be the most effective at getting things done.Richard Rohr
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The human ego prefers anything, just about anything, to falling, or changing, or dying. The ego is that part of you that loves the status quo — even when it's not working. It attaches to past and present and fears the future.Richard Rohr
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Much of what is called Christianity has more to do with disguising the ego behind the screen of religion and culture than any real movement toward a God beyond the small self, and a new self in God.Richard Rohr
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We have been shown how to fight hate without becoming hate ourselves. We have been given a Companion and a Friend and not just a good idea. We have been given joy in the midst of failure, and not just a way of winning or being right.Richard Rohr
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If we seek spiritual heroism ourselves, the old ego is just back in control under a new name. There would not really be any change at all, but only disguise, just bogus self-improvement on our own terms.Richard Rohr
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People who know how to creatively break the rules also know why the rules were there in the first place.Richard Rohr
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A lot of us pray as if prayer is really twisting the arm of God or convincing God to do something. We think by saying more words we’ll talk God into it. We think, “If I say it one more time, God will agree with me.” That very attitude is an alienating attitude. It keeps us in the role of doing it “right” or often enough to convince an unready or unwilling God. Wrong, wrong, wrong! 19 minutes ago .Richard Rohr
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The people who know God well–mystics, hermits, prayerful people, those who risk everything to find God–always meet a lover, not a dictator.Richard Rohr
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Faith for Jesus is the opposite of anxiety. If you are anxious, if you are trying to control everything, if you are worried about many things, you don’t have faith, according to Jesus. You do not trust that God is good and on your side. You’re trying to do it all yourself, lift yourself up by your own bootstraps.Richard Rohr
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Forgiveness becomes central to Jesus’ teaching, because to receive reality is always to “bear it, ” to bear with reality for not meeting all of our needs. To accept reality is to forgive reality for being what it is, almost day by day and sometimes even hour by hour. Such a practice creates patient and humble people. Forgiveness reveals three goodnesses simultaneously. When we forgive, we choose the goodness of the other over their faults, we experience God’s goodness flowing through ourselves, and we also experience our own capacity for goodness in a way that almost surprises us. We are finally in touch with a much Higher Power, and we slowly learn how to draw upon this Infinite Source.Richard Rohr
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The way to transmute the pain of life is to reveal the wounded side of things, evil, even, and then place the wound inside of sacred space. The Bible is about naming, facing, and then forgiving the wounds of history.Richard Rohr
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All great spirituality is about what we do with our pain.Richard Rohr
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Pain and suffering that are not transformed are usually projected onto others.Richard Rohr
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True baptism allows us to reframe, and contain, the reality of evil, without needing to blame anyone else, without any need for shame or vengeance. We are all in this together, and our common wound shows itself in different ways.Richard Rohr
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This seems to have been St. Augustine's very notion of "memory, " not just nostalgia for some past moment, but connecting past, present, and future in one complete contemplative knowing.Richard Rohr
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It is crucial that Jesus is led by the Spirit. There are two wildernesses, two darknesses in the spiritual journey. One you go into by your own stupidity, by your sin, blindness, ignorance and mistakes. We all do that. But there’s another darkness. The holy darkness is the darkness that God leads us into, through and beyond. This is a necessary darkness for the journey. In a certain sense, God’s darkness is a much better teacher than light. There comes a time when you have to either go deeper into faith or you will turn back, when you have to live without knowing or you lose faith altogether. So we have the Spirit leading Jesus into the wilderness, to face the essential darkness. .Richard Rohr
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You can unlock spiritual things only from within.Richard Rohr
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Our wounds are the only thing humbling enough to break our attachment to our false self.Richard Rohr
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We do not handle suffering. Suffering handles us.Richard Rohr
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Sacramental listening reminds us that current suffering isn’t the end of the story. God loves us deeply, and the vision for the future is vaster and more magnificent than we could ever imagine. In these moments of profound human presence, we are awakened to the divine presence and see that the kingdom of God is coming and yet is already here.Richard Rohr
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People who have been initiated "broke through in what felt like breaking down".Richard Rohr
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Final authority in the spiritual world does not tend to come from any kind of agenda success but from some kind of suffering. Insecurity and impermanence are the best spiritual teachers.Richard Rohr
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It is no surprise that the first and always unwelcome message of male initiation rites is LIFE — IS — HARD.Richard Rohr
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When we fail we are merely joining the great parade of humanity that has walked ahead of us and will follow after us.Richard Rohr
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Denial of our pattern of failure seems to be a kind of practical atheism or chosen ignorance among many believers and clergy.Richard Rohr
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God seems to be about turning our loves around and using them toward the great love that is their true object.Richard Rohr
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Once you see that your skin and your gift are two sides of the same coin, you can never forget it. It preserves religion from any arrogance and denial.Richard Rohr
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It's true all the time everywhere or it's not true! And that one truth is always Mystery.Richard Rohr
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One great idea of the biblical revelation is that God is manifest in the ordinary, in the actual, in the daily, in the now, in the concrete incarnations of life, and not through purity codes and moral achievement contests, which are seldom achieved anyway… We do not think ourselves into new ways of living, we live ourselves into new ways of thinking… The most courageous thing we will ever do is to bear humbly the mystery of our own reality.Richard Rohr
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Jesus was trying to present value of a life of vulnerability in which one would have practical and needed experience of the same. It would be a life without baggage, so one would learn to accept others and their culture instead of always carrying along our own country's assumptions and calling them the Gospel.Richard Rohr
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When you get your, ' Who am I?', question right, all of your, ' What should I do?' questions tend to take care of themselvesRichard Rohr
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Our first experience of life is primarily felt in the *body.* ... We know ourselves in the security of those who hold us and gaze upon us. It's not heard or seen or thought it's felt. That's the original knowing.Richard Rohr
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True masters deconstruct as well as reconstruct.Richard Rohr
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In the second half of life, people have less power to infatuate you. But they also have much less power to control you or hurt you.Richard Rohr
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I do not think you should get rid of your sin until you have learned what it has to teach you.Richard Rohr
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The cross solved our problem by first revealing our real problem, our universal pattern of scapegoating and sacrificing others. The cross exposes forever the scene of our crime.Richard Rohr
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Sin happens whenever we refuse to keep growing.Richard Rohr
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I have prayed for years for one good humiliation a day, and then, I must watch my reaction to it. I have no other way of spotting both my denied shadow self and my idealized persona.Richard Rohr
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The shape of evil is much more superficiality and blindness than the usual list of hot sins. God hides, and is found, precisely in the depths of everything.Richard Rohr
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Sell your cleverness and purchase bewilderment instead. It is such a willingness to live with bewilderment that characterizes the true wise man.Richard Rohr
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Ability to laugh at evil, to relativize symbols without dismissing them is usually a sign of a rather healthy person. Puritans and reformers can never laugh.Richard Rohr
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Right words make all of us feel falsely important. Right action keeps all of us forever beginners.Richard Rohr
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I hope we can inaugurate a new humility in our use of religious language, which for me is the very proof that it is authentic.Richard Rohr
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If change and growth are not programmed into your spirituality, if there are not serious warnings about the blinding nature of fear and fanaticism, your religion will always end up worshiping the status quo and protecting your present ego position and personal advantage as if it were God.Richard Rohr
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Often it takes outer authority to send us on the path to our own inner authority.Richard Rohr
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True spirituality is not taught, it's caught. Once our sails have been unfurled to the Spirit, henceforth our motivation for the journey toward holiness and wholeness is immense gratitude.Richard Rohr
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With improved historical records, and easier access to them, we actually have better reasons for hating one another, for anger and violence toward one another.Richard Rohr
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I would wonder if you could be a hero or heroine if you did not live in deep time, that is, Past, present, and future all at once.Richard Rohr
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Self-help courses will only help you if they teach you to pay attention to life itself.Richard Rohr
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The Church, as Jesus seems to be defining it, is the gathering of accepted brokenness. It’s not the gathering of the saved.Richard Rohr
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Church practice has been more influenced by Plato than by Jesus. We invariably prefer the universal synthesis, the answer that settles all the dust and resolves every question even when it is not entirely true over the mercy and grace of God.Richard Rohr
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You ironically have to have a very strong ego structure to let go of your ego. You need to struggle with the rules more than a bit before you throw them out. You only internalize values by butting up against external values for a while.Richard Rohr
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Whatever good, true, or perfect things we can say about humanity or creation, we can say of God exponentially. God is the beauty of creation and humanity multiplied to the infinite power.Richard Rohr
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We are usually on bended knee before laws or angrily reacting against them, both immature responses.Richard Rohr
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Without law in some form, and, also, without butting up against that law, we cannot move forward easily or naturally. We have to have something hard and half-good to rebel against.Richard Rohr
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How do you sell emptiness, vulnerability, and nonsuccess?Richard Rohr
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If we know our original blessing, we can easily handle our original sin. If we rest in a previous dignity, we can bear insults effortlessly. If you really know your name is on some eternal list, you can let go of the irritations on the small lists of time. Ultimate security allows you to suffer small insecurity without tremendous effort. If you are tethered at some center point, it is amazing how far out you can fly and not get lost.Richard Rohr
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Men need men to keep their edges hot and clean, whereas women keep us warm and soft.Richard Rohr
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You know after any truly initiating experience that you are part of a much bigger whole. Life is not about you henceforward, but you are about life.Richard Rohr
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You cannot contain evil by shaming it, or making people feel guilty, but only by revealing it toward it is, and then seeing the good as better.Richard Rohr
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Our religious institutions are not giving very many men access to credible encounters with the holy or even with their own wholeness. We largely give men mandates, signposts, scaffolding and appealing images that tend to create religious identity and boundaries, but from the outside.Richard Rohr
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If you do not acquire good training in detachment, you may attach to all the wrong things.Richard Rohr
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When I am not king, then THE Kingdom has its best chance of breaking through.Richard Rohr
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It is hard to hear God, but it is even harder not to hear God. The pain one brings upon oneself by living outside of evident reality is a greater and longer-lasting pain than the brief pain of facing it head on.Richard Rohr
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Every missed rite of passage leads to a new rigidification of the personality.Richard Rohr
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His Kingship, precisely because it is so broad, so total, is doomed to be rejected by anybody who is still into tribalism, or small belonging systems. We don't really like the big Kingdom if it gets in the way of our smaller kingdoms, and it always does.Richard Rohr
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Those who are not true leaders will just affirm people at their own immature level.Richard Rohr
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The human art form is in uniting fruitful activity with a contemplative stance, not one or the other, but always both at the same time.Richard Rohr
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The big truth for men is that often we have to leave home in the first half of life before we can return home at a later stage and find our soul there.Richard Rohr
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If we don't learn to mythologize our lives, inevitably we will pathologize them.Richard Rohr
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THE MALE JOURNEY t some point in time, a man needs to embark on a risky -journey. It's a necessary adventure that takes him into uncertainty, and it almost always involves some form of difficulty or failure. On this journey the man learns to trust God more than he trusts a sense of right and wrong or his own sense of self-worth.Richard Rohr
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Men as a class appear to be "at risk, " maybe even at high risk.Richard Rohr
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If the mystery of the Trinity is the template of all reality, what we have in the Trinitarian God is the perfect balance between union and differentiation, autonomy and mutuality, identity and community.Richard Rohr
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Seventy times seven" is a medicine for a healing community, not for a community with all the answers beforehand and all the appropriate punishments afterwards.Richard Rohr
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The soul needs meaning as much as the body needs food.Richard Rohr
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Most people confuse their life situation with their actual life, which is an underlying flow beneath the everyday events.Richard Rohr
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If this inner and critical voice has kept you safe for many years as your inner voice of authority, you may end up not being able to hear the real voice of God.Richard Rohr
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The ego hates losing — even to God.Richard Rohr
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A skilled listener can help people tap into their own wisdom.Richard Rohr
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A mystic doesn’t say “I believe.” They say “I know.” A true mystic will ironically speak with that self-confidence but at the same time with a kind of humility. So when you see that combination of calm self-confidence, certitude, and humility all at the same time you have the basis for mysticism in general.Richard Rohr
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Much of the work of midlife is to tell the difference between those who are dealing with their issues through you and those who are really dealing with you.Richard Rohr
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The theological virtue of hope is the patient and trustful willingness to live without closure, without resolution, and still be content and even happy because our Satisfaction is now at another level, and our Source is beyond ourselves.Richard Rohr
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Nature is the one song of praise that never stops singing.Richard Rohr
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When 'happiness' eludes us - as, eventually, it always will - we have the invitation to examine our programmed responses and to exercise our power to choose again.Richard Rohr
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If our love of God does not directly influence, and even change, how we engage in the issues of our time on this earth, I wonder what good religion is.Richard Rohr
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God created us for love, for union, for forgiveness and compassion and, yet, that has not been our storyline. That has not been our history.Richard Rohr
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Most Christian 'believers' tend to echo the cultural prejudices and worldviews of the dominant group in their country, with only a minority revealing any real transformation of attitudes or consciousness. It has been true of slavery and racism, classism and consumerism and issues of immigration and health care for the poor.Richard Rohr
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Your heart has to be prepared ahead of time through faith and prayer and grace and mercy and love and forgiveness so you can keep your heart open in hell, when hell happens.Richard Rohr